By Hannah Watts

MISSISSIPPI STATE -- Families of military personnel will appreciate helping hands this holiday season while their loved ones are serving overseas.

The holidays are often seen as joyous occasions and a chance to come together with friends and family. However, this holiday season has been over shadowed with natural disasters and the war in Iraq.

Whitney Mathis, the 4-H Military Project associate with Mississippi State University's Extension Service, said families can benefit from connecting with others in their community during this vital time. Communities can show support for military families with acts of appreciation, such as baking cookies, creating an encouraging card, treating them to a movie, giving gift certificates to family entertainment, or even inviting them over for a holiday meal.

“Another way to lend a helping hand could be as simple as organizing child care so the parent may finish up his or her Christmas shopping,” Mathis said. “Spouses often find themselves suddenly in the role of a single parent, which can be even more stressful during the holidays.”

Mathis said the holidays are a great opportunity for local organizations, churches, friends and neighbors to help make the season easier for military families.

“The hustle and bustle of the holidays can add considerable stress in the absence of a father, mother or child,” Mathis said. “Most communities are more than willing to offer moral support and understanding in this trying time.”

Mathis said Mississippians' response to times like these is why the state is known for its hospitality.

“Mississippi residents have shown their strength of character by rising to the occasion and facing challenges head on,” Mathis said. “It is truly the strength of our citizens that will keep our soldiers and their families going during this holiday season.”

Marianne Breland, family readiness program coordinator for Mississippi's Air National Guard, said by taking the time to reach out, communities can help ease the burdens of military families considerably during the holiday season.

“One of the best ways to show support to military families is by contributing to the Mississippi Military Family Relief Fund,” Breland said. “The fund is completely supported through donations that are used to help military families in need of assistance while their loved ones are overseas.”

Contact: Whitney Mathis, (662) 325-3350